NOVEMBER 25 — AP: TRUMP OFF HOOK. JUSTICE DEPARTMENT MOVES TO DISMISS TRUMP DOCUMENTS CASE AND ELECTION INTERFERENCE CASE.

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fROM THE ASSOCIATED PRESS:

Federal prosecutors moved Monday to dismiss the criminal charges against President-elect Donald Trump that accused him of plotting to overturn the 2020 election and to abandon the classified documents case against him, citing longstanding Justice Department policy that says sitting presidents cannot face criminal prosecution.

The decision by special counsel Jack Smith, who had fiercely sought to hold Trump criminally accountable for his efforts to subvert the 2020 election, represented the end of the federal effort against the former president following his election victory this month despite the election-related cases and multiple other unrelated criminal charges against him and is headed back to the White House.

The decision, revealed in court filings, also amounts to a predictable but nonetheless stunning conclusion to criminal cases that had been seen as the most perilous of the multiple legal threats Trump has faced. It reflects the practical consequences of Trump’s victory, ensuring he enters office free from scrutiny over his hoarding of top secret documents and his efforts to overturn the 2020 presidential election he lost to Democrat Joe Biden.

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OCTOBER 25–OUTBREAK OUTLOOK NORTHEAST. NEW YORK COVID RETURNS TO MID-SUMMER LOWS. BIRD FLU CONCERNS IN PENNSYLVANIA

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Welcome to the Northeastern edition of Outbreak Outlook! It is only available to paid subscribers. If you wish to become a paid subscriber and access region-specific information, please click the Subscribe now button below. Thanks for reading! -Caitlin

Respiratory Diseases

ILI

Most states in the region are doing fine with ILI, with a few exceptions.

New York City leads the Northeast with 4.6% outpatient ILI (up from 4.2%). NYC often has the highest activity in the region, so this pattern is familiar. New Jersey follows with 4.2% ILI (down slightly from 4.4%) and minimal wastewater activity.

New York (excluding NYC) reports 2.2% ILI with minimal wastewater activity, while Pennsylvania shows 1.6% ILI with minimal wastewater levels.

The northern New England states show much lower activity levels. Maine reports 1.6% ILI (down from 1.7%) with minimal wastewater activity, while Vermont is at 1.0% ILI with minimal wastewater levels. New Hampshire maintains 1.3% ILI with minimal wastewater activity.

Connecticut is reporting 2.4% ILI and minimal wastewater activity, while Rhode Island shows 1.4% ILI with moderate wastewater levels and a significant decrease from the previous week.


COVID-19

Wastewater activity is minimal in the Northeast, with a SARS-CoV-2 concentration lower than at any other point in the past year. Severe illness primarily held steady at low levels.

Source: CDC

Wastewater activity is minimal in New YorkNew Jersey, and low in VermontNew HampshireMassachusetts and Connecticut. In Maine, wastewater activity is still coming down from the late summer wave and has now decreased to moderate levels. In Rhode Island, activity increased to moderate levels a couple weeks ago, and remained stable this past week.

The exception to this generally calm picture is Pennsylvania, where activity increased by 4-fold in the past week, moving from low to high activity. It’s too soon to know what to make of this anomalous spike.

Source: CDC

Severe illness primarily held steady at very low levels this past week. Trips to the ED remained at minimal levels (<1.5%) in most states in the region. There were very small increases in ED visits in Maine and New Hampshire. However, it is too soon to tell whether these increases represent the start of an increasing trend or just some transient fluctuations, though the lack of an increase in wastewater activity in these states suggests it may be the latter. Hospitalizations held steady

in New York, at the fairly low level of 2.5 hospitalizations per 100,0000. Hospitalizations also held steady in Connecticut this past week at 2.0; it is now roughly back to where it was before the late summer wave.


RSV

Not much happening with RSV just yet.

Connecticut reports 0.8 per 100,000 and New York shows 0.7 per 100,000, both with concurrent increases in wastewater activity. These are very low levels of hospitalization. Rhode Island is showing very high wastewater activity but no reported hospitalization data.

RSV hospitalizations in Connecticut. Source: CDC

The remaining northeastern states, including PennsylvaniaVermontMaineNew Hampshire, and New Jersey, maintain minimal wastewater activity levels with very low hospitalization rates. New Hampshire showed a marked decrease in wastewater levels, while others remained relatively stable.


Other Bugs

The spread of many viruses that cause cold- and flu-like illness continues.

  • Parainfluenza viruses are fairly elevated, and at 5.9% test positivity are roughly three-quarters of the way to hitting their highest rate in the past year.
  • Rhinoviruses/enteroviruses continue to remain quite elevated, at 27% test positivity. Test positivity has been hovering between ~25-30% since September.
  • Adenoviruses have increased to 3.7% test positivity, which is fairly elevated. In the past five years, test positivity has tended to peak between 4-5% (with the exception of 2023, when it got up to 8%).
  • Human coronaviruses continued the same slow and steady week-over-week increase they’ve been on for the past two months. Test positivity is elevated but not particularly high (it is currently about half of its peak rate of the past year).

Stomach Bugs

Norovirus rates remain very low in the region, at 2.5% test positivity. If you’re traveling to other parts of the country for Thanksgiving, keep in mind that norovirus rates are high in every other region. To help reduce the chance of acquiring the virus, wash your hands frequently with soap and water (alcohol-based hand sanitizers are of little use against norovirus) and avoid touching your face.


Food recalls

The following foods are being recalled because they are contaminated. Please check your cupboards and throw out any of these items:

New:

  • Super brand dried cinnamon powder (more info)
  • Bagged carrots, full size and baby, sold at multiple retailers – this was previously reported, but it expanded to carrots sold under several additional brand names this past week (more info)
  • Fabalish Kickin’ Carrot Falafel Bites (related to the carrot recall above) (more info)
  • Gaines Family Farmstead Chicken Chips for Dogs. While not for human consumption, humans may be infected by Salmonella if they do not adequately wash their hands or contaminated surfaces after handling the product (more info)
  • Hollywood Feed Carolina Raised Chicken Chips [for Dogs]. Same as above (more info)

Previously reported:

  • Soft ripened cheeses, including brie, sold under multiple brand names, including Aldi, La Bonne Vie, and Glenview Farms (more info)
    • Prepackaged turkey sandwiches with spreadable brie sold under multiple brand names (more info)
  • Ready-to-eat poultry and meat products sold by Yu Shang Food, including pork belly, beef shank, and whole chicken (more info)
  • If you have food allergies, you may wish to review these FDA safety alerts and USDA alerts for foods with undeclared allergens.

In other news

  • As of November 15, 2024, New Brunswick, Canada is experiencing a significant measles outbreak, with 44 confirmed cases, most of which involve individuals aged 19 or younger. This surge has contributed to Canada’s annual measles case count reaching 100, the highest in five years. The outbreak, traced to an initial case reported on October 24 involving international travel, has been confined to Health Zone 3, encompassing Fredericton and parts of the Upper Saint John River Valley. In response, Public Health has organized vaccination clinics and is urging residents to ensure their immunizations are current to curb further transmission.
  • BIRD FLU CONCERNS IN PENNSYLVANIA
  • Pennsylvania will require H5N1 testing for milk starting Nov. 26 under a quarantine order signed by the state’s Agriculture Secretary. Milk tankers from Pennsylvania farms will be tested at least every 14 days, either at in-state processors or by farmers and cooperatives for out-of-state shipments. Positive tests will trigger quarantines and surveillance testing in affected zones. Developed with industry input and free for farmers, the program complements a forthcoming USDA bulk milk surveillance initiative aimed at mapping virus presence and enforcing biosecurity measures.
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NOVEMBER 22—-EMPIRE TRAIN SERVICE RESTORED IN NEW YORK STATE: HOCHUL ANNOUNCES

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THE EMPIRE STATE EXPRESS ROLLING AGAIN

Railroad Agrees To Restore Trains and Add Additional Cars to Empire Service Following Governor’s Letter

Governor Kathy Hochul, Amtrak and the New York State Department of Transportation today announced a restoration of Amtrak’s Empire Service that will aid passengers during the upcoming holiday and winter travel seasons. Following a letter sent by Governor Hochul and others earlier this month urging Amtrak to take action, the railroad — in consultation with the New York State Department of Transportation — has agreed to restore nearly all of the trains that had been temporarily suspended in previously announced service modifications. Additionally, Amtrak has agreed to add additional cars to other Empire Service trains in order to further mitigate the disruption to passengers. 

“Ensuring access to reliable train travel throughout this key corridor is critical to riders who utilize the service and to communities who benefit from the economic activity they generate,” Governor Hochul said. “These service restorations are a huge victory for passengers who depend on the Empire Service, and I thank Amtrak for working with us to ensure that we minimize to the fullest extent possible the schedule disruptions caused by the East River Tunnel Rehabilitation Project.”

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WHITE PLAINS WEEK THE NOVEMBER 22 REPORT TONIGHT 7:30 EST ON FIOS CH 45 OPTIMUM WP CH 76 AND WWW.WPCOMMUNITYMEDIA.ORG

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THE BREAKDOWN OF THE NEW CONGRESS — WHO REALLY DECIDED THE ELECTION

CONGRESS BEFORE AND AFTER THE ELECTION AS OF NOV 17 WHAT IT MEANS, STRATEGIES

MEDIA POWERHOUSES CONTINUE TO IMPROVE ATTITUDE TOWARDS PRESIDENT-ELECT

92 YEARS AGO JANUARY 30TH, 1933 ADOLF HITLER WAS VOTED CHANCELLOR OF GERMANY THE UNBELIEVABLE PEACEFUL ASCENSION.

61 YEARS AGO TODAY PRESIDENT JOHN F. KENNEDY WAS MURDERED IN DALLAS — THE SHADOW WE STILL SUFFER FROM AS A NATION

 

 

 

GAETZ DECIDES NOT TO ACCEPT ATTORNEY GENERAL POST FORMER FLORIDA ATTORNEY GENERAL IS NOMINATED TO REPLACE HIM.

LEAK OF THE WEEK: GAETZ TURNS DOWN ATTORNEY GENERAL NOMINATION AFTER HIS CONTACTS ARE PUBLISHED

BIG MEDIA CHANGES ITS TUNE TO PLAY MORE IN HARMONY WITH THE PRESIDENT ELECT

ASSOCIATED PRESS ESTABLISHES NON-PROFIT TO RAISE $500,000 THIS YEAR TO STAY IN BUSINESS.

 

FIRST SNOWFALL BEGAN AT MIDNIGHT FRIDAY.  ENDS INDIAN SUMMER. ENDS DROUGHT. DPW IS SO READY AND ROADS CLEARED AT SUNRISE. THEY GOT THIS!

 

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YOUR LOCAL EPIDEMIOLOGIST NOVEMBER 22: BIRD FLU AFFECTING PRICES OF EGGS

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The Dose (November 22)

Resources that may be helpful, eggs are expensive again, new RSV data, and STIs are declining

It’s time to get back into the groove of things. Here’s public health news you can use for the week.


Fall respiratory weather report: “Big three” remain low

Per national wastewater data, Covid-19, flu, and RSV all remain low in the U.S.

I anticipate fall respiratory season “officially” beginning next week, as it will soon cross the epidemic threshold. The holidays may hyperdrive it. I will start publishing a semi-regular State of Affairs again to bring you a deeper dive.


Resources in anticipation of the unknown

Many people are wondering what they can do to prepare for an HHS secretary with a history of ignoring reality. Regardless of what happens, the YLE audience—you—are trusted messengers (religious leaders, business executives, clinicians, public health departments, neighbors, grandparents) and will continue to have a critical role in listening and filling health information voids.

I have started curating a list of resources that may be helpful:

  1. Top 12 questions on routine vaccines. Many people have questions about routine vaccinations: the need, safety, and rumors. YLE, in partnership with Yale School of Public Health, compiled an FAQ document of evidence-based information for you. Feel free to email, print out, distribute, doodle on, or let it guide organic conversations with others.
    YLE Routine Vaccination FAQ Nov 2024
    572KB ∙ PDF file
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  2. Communicating health in a polarized era. On Tuesday, December 10, at 10 a.m. PT/1 p.m. ET, I will host a live Q&A with Kyle McGowan, the former CDC Chief of Staff under the first Trump Administration. McGowan has helped me and many other public health programs think strategically about positioning public health in a polarized era. This event will target a public health audience, but anyone is welcome to join! Mark your calendars; more details to come.
  3. Weekly takes on public health news. I have joined America Dissected as a co-host! We will bring you first-draft reactions to public health in the news and how politics, media, culture, tech — everything around us — interact to shape our health. Follow on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or whenever you get your podcasts. 

Eggs are getting expensive thanks to H5N1 (BIRD FLU)

Egg prices are up 30%, which means we are paying upwards of $4 for a dozen eggs. That is if you can find them. Why? A constellation of reasons, but there is one we can’t ignore: the avian flu (H5N1) is impacting poultry farmers, although it’s not yet as bad as last year.

Outbreaks in commercial poultry farms can devastate local food supplies, affect farmers’ and employees’ livelihoods, and raise poultry prices due to a limited and strained supply. For example, an egg factory in Iowa killed 5.3 million chickens over a single case of avian influenza in the flock.

There’s no immediate concern for the general public (risk to humans is still low), except that it’s a pain at the grocery store.

WHAT WE KNOW

However, scientists have been learning more about H5N1 and what it may mean to humans. Here’s an attempt to catch you up:

  1. Asymptomatic infection. Fifty-three humans have been infected with H5N1 this year, mostly from direct contact with dairy cows and poultry. Thanks to some new science, we now know we’re missing cases. The CDC discovered that some dairy workers who never reported symptoms have antibodies. In other words, H5N1 causes asymptomatic infection. This isn’t surprising, given what we know about seasonal flu, a cousin of H5N1.
  2. A Canadian teenager is in the ICU because of an H5N1 infection. This is the country’s first known H5N1 human infection. Unfortunately, health authorities don’t know how the teen got it. They haven’t had any contact with birds, cows, or pigs (although their dog was euthanized because it got so sick; epidemiologists are looking into this). The teen’s severe reaction is likely related to age. The younger the person, the less cross-protection is offered by exposure to seasonal flu.
  3. The virus is mutating in places that we don’t like. Scientists looked more closely at the genetics of the Canadian ICU patient’s virus and found concerning mutations that could make it better adapted to infecting humans. These changes alone do not mean that the virus is poised for efficient human-to-human spread, as many additional changes are likely needed for that to occur. But the more chances the virus gets to infect people, the more likely these changes are to occur together. In addition, CDC has reported that some mutations are associated with reduced effectiveness of antivirals. Still, it’s thought that these changes are not currently big enough to make antivirals ineffective altogether. 

It will be interesting to see how a change in administration impacts preparedness for pandemics like H5N1. I will be keeping a close eye on it.


New RSV vaccine data for pregnant women: Earlier is better

There’s been a lack of real-world effectiveness data on RSV vaccination during pregnancy. This week, we got a really useful study on the optimal timing of vaccination during pregnancy:

  • Researchers collected data on mothers who received an RSV vaccine between 32 and 36 weeks of pregnancy and collected antibody levels in two-month-old newborns.
  • They found that women vaccinated closer to delivery had significantly lower antibodies in their babies.

To be clear, getting vaccinated during pregnancy at any time will help the baby. However, for maximum protection, aim to receive the vaccine at least five weeks before your due date.

How does this vaccine work again? A mom gets vaccinated, and then she makes antibodies, which takes some time. Then mom’s antibodies are passed to the neonate via the placenta. Once born, the infant has protection up to six months after birth. Pretty cool! Parents also have the option to give a monoclonal antibody to their infant. See here for more information. 


Sexually transmitted infections slow down

After years of increasing, sexually transmitted infections (STIs) have turned the tide and decreased by 1.8%. The decline is seen in every region across the United States but is most pronounced in the West. Lower rates of gonorrhea and syphilis are driving the slowdown.

Why the decrease? Mainly due to public health campaigns and innovations:

  • Ability to test frequently and privately. FDA-authorized self-tests (or at-home tests) for syphilisgonorrhea, and chlamydia. Awareness of infection can reduce transmission to others.
  • Doxy PEP. This is a medication one can take within 72 hours of sex that reduces the chances of getting an infection, recommended primarily for men who have sex with men and trans women after unprotected sex.
  • Public health campaigns driven by a national task force for syphilis and for PrEP to prevent HIV transmission and to test more frequently.

Reader question grab bag 

After the future of vaccine policy post last week, a reader emailed: “Why don’t some places allow [vaccination] exemptions? For example, I recall Maine had a very high exemption rate before ending the exemption; is that true of the others?  What happened to change the rules?”

In 2015, a Disneyland measles outbreak fueled legislation to remove non-medical exemptions for routine vaccinations in California. Maine changed its law in 2021. I don’t know why—it doesn’t seem like this was in response to an outbreak but rather a groundswell during the pandemic. It was a very close vote. Both states saw dramatic vaccine exemption declines after passing the law eliminating non-medical exemptions.


Bottom line

You’re all caught up for the week! Have a wonderful weekend. It’s time for me to pull out holiday boxes and start decorating the house.

Love, YLE


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NOVEMBER 21– U.S. CUSTOMS AND BORDER PROTECTION REDUCING OPERATING HOURS AT FOUR NORTHERN BORDER CROSSINGS IN NEW YORK STATE

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STATEMENT FROM GOVERNOR KATHY HOCHUL ON LOOSE BORDER:

“I strongly oppose the U.S. Customs and Border Protection’s decision to reduce operating hours at four crossings on New York’s border with Canada. While the Biden-Harris Administration has achieved measurable success in enhancing southern border security, New York is experiencing a dramatic increase in irregular crossings along our northern border.

“My Administration has already taken actions to further defend our northern border: redirecting $5 million in federal State Homeland Security Program funding to enhance security efforts at New York’s border with Canada, including by purchasing additional tools to support investigations into transnational criminal organizations.

We have also increased staff and technological capacity for New York State Police, which includes a comprehensive drone management system and handheld X-ray machines. While these important resources will help keep New Yorkers safe and manage the spike in illegal border crossings, greater federal support is crucial to meet the magnitude of migration we are seeing.

“Republicans in Congress failed to pass a bipartisan comprehensive immigration bill earlier this year that would have given states like New York greater resources to handle the influx of migrants nationwide, and New York can no longer afford to wait for federal lawmakers to act. We need to expand enforcement at the northern border today and I call on the U.S. Customs and Border Protection to reverse this decision.”

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NOVEMBER 18–PROFESSOR STEPHEN ROLANDI ANALYSIS OF PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION

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November 18, 2024    

 

 Steve’s 2024 Election Re-Cap

 

The Popular Vote – President*

Trump (Rep.)            76,519,421            49.92%

Harris (D)                  73,872,728            48.19%

Stein (Green)                  764,908              0.50%

Kennedy (Ind.)               737,643              0.48%

Oliver (Lib.)                     634,858              0.41%

All others                          747,668              0.50%

 

Total votes cast:       153,277,226

Trump plurality       2,646,693

 

Note: 50.08% of all votes were cast for someone other than D. Trump.

Estimated Turnout:     155,000,000 or 63.3% of all eligible voters

 

Source: Associated Press 98.1% of all votes counted & reported (as of 11/17/24)

 

Electoral College – President              Steve’s Forecast     Change

Trump (Rep.)              312                               264                         +48

Harris  (Dem.)             226                               274                         -48

Others                                  0                                    0                              0

 

How did the pollsters’ do?

                                   RCP average          SR forecast*      Actual

Trump (R)                              48.6%                   48%          50%

Harris (D)                               48.7%                   49%          48%

Other/Undecided                   2.7%                      3%            2%

 

*I called 47/50 states + DC correctly, including the battleground states of:  PA.; NC; Nevada & Arizona. I missed: Iowa, Georgia, Michigan & Wisconsin.

 

State certifications for the Electoral College Deadline: 12/11/2024

 

NATIONAL VOTE TOTALS FOR THE HOUSE OF REPRESENTATIVES*

Republican                        73,199,951            50.90%

Democratic                       68,359,554             47.53%

Others                                    2,263,285               1.57%

 

Total vote cast*               143,822,790

Republican  plurality      4,840,397

 

*source: Charles Cook Report 11/15/24

          

                             Current House (2023-25)     New House (2025-27)

                                                                                                                 SR forecast

Rep.                                            220                                   218*             216

Dem.                                           213                                   212               219

Other                                              0                                          0                    0

Vacant/Uncalled                        2                                          5

 

*3 vacancies are anticipated as a result of President-elect Trump’s selection of nominees for: UN Ambassador; Attorney General and CIA.

 

UNITED STATES SENATE

 

                                                                                          Change               SR Forecast

Rep.                         49                       52                          + 3                        51

Dem./Ind.             51                       47                          –  4                         49

Other                        0                          0                                                            0

Uncalled                  0                          1   (PA.) 

 

 

FUNDRAISING TOTALS (estimate)

 

Trump (Rep.) campaign              $ 1.2 billion          + $ 300 million surplus

Harris (Dem.) campaign             $  1.6 billion          –  $   20 million deficit

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NOV 18—-OUTLOOK NORTHEAST FROM CAITLIN RIVERS

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TODAY IS MY FATHER’S BIRTHDAY

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MY PARENTS: CHARLES F. BAILEY AND MILDRED PINNEO BAILEY

WPCNR THE SUNDAY  BAILEY. By John F. Bailey. Republished from The CitizeNetReporter of June 17, 2007:

This week celebrates a great American Father, mine and the other fathers across time who provide an eternal legacy their sons and daughters rely on every day and think about their fathers every day.

Charles F. Bailey.

He is my father. He was born November 17, 1918.

My father gave me four pieces of advice in life: Always drive an air-conditioned car. Always central air-condition your home. Stay out of court.

And, oh yes, don’t sit in traffic. Take the next exit and wing it.

Always take the service road on the Long Island Expressway. (He would have loved a Garmin.)

In retrospect, his advice has served me well.  I am always comfortable. I sit out traffic delays in comfort. I have not made lawyers rich.

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CHARLES F. BAILEY MY DAD OF PLEASANTVILLE, NY 1918-1986

He was not an emotional man. He was a banker and always wore suits crisp white shirts with French Cuffs to work. Starched.  To work. I have fond memories of going to meet him in the days of steam engines in Pleasantville – when train tracks were at grade with Manville Road at the old stone station.

I was most impressed as a young child by how he always smelled of coal cinders when he got off the train – like commuter’s cologne.

Sadly on today’s electric trains you do not get that. You always heard those steam engines coming. Chuffing doing serious work.

You could see them coming around the bend but you heard then first. Bell ringing ,chuffing, puffing : Clouds of very busy, inspiring industrious black smoke streaming at the horizon down the line.

He’d get off the train.

My mother would move over and he’d drive the old Hudson Hornet home. He always spoke quietly. Never raised his voice. Drank scotch and soda in the winter. “G & T’s” in the summer, martinis with George and Howard two close friends. He smoked Chesterfield, Philip Morris, Marlboros, Kents with the micronite filter.

He set up a Lionel train set in our basement – perhaps our unspoken connection.

When I was sent in by train for the first time to meet him at the office during Christmas time, he’d have his secretary Margie greet me at Grand Central Terminal which still is a very big and scary place to me .

He would take me to lunch at Jack’s Monte Rosa Restaurant on 49th Street – which I thought was a very great place. Hub bub, tinkling glasses. Sharp-dressed waiters in white jackets black bow ties.

When I first went to it with him, I was a little disappointed that it was not more glamorous but I was really impressed that Jack the owner greeted him by name.

“Hi, Mr. Bailey. Howe are you doing?”

I thought that was great that my Dad was greeted with respect.

When I first started working in Washington, D.C. in 1968 I ate regularly at a restaurant below the television station WMAL-TV where I worked, it was called Marty’s Italian Village.

Marty, the owner (who looked like Humphrey Bogart, the only thing missing was the white sport coat) started calling me when I came in around 7 PM, ‘Hi John, how are you?” People would look at me. They thought I was big.  I liked that. Feeling big in my small world at $90 a week.)

When my father came to visit me in Washington where I worked. I took him around town. I told him when he got off the plane. “Hi, Dad, welcome to my town.” I wanted to impress him. We’re always trying to impress our fathers. At least I was.

Another Father time was when my Dad came out for Dad’s Day at college.

I mean this was a big thing to me. He watched me do play-by-play of a football game from atop the press box in 15 degree weather. It was cold. But he watched. Acted impressed. He hated cold weather. No watching from the warm press box for him.

Another time he impressed was when I lost a job where I was working at the television station that I was being considered for. I told him how unfair it was, he put things in perspective:

“Puggy, he said,  “The film manager wasn’t going to put you in as his Assistant if you were going to be bucking him all the time.”

It put things in perspective. No false sentiment. No making me feel better, he was tough enough to teach by being realistic while telling me not to feel sorry for myself. It was one of my first lessons in how telling the truth puts situations in perspective. You know the truth, should we recognize it when it is told to us is a way to stop feeling sorry for yourself, that whatever event happened to you it happened not because you handled it wrong, but because others were weak.

Then later in my career, I was fired out of a job completely blindsided. He again intervened, saying to me he thought what the agency head had done was a terrible thing. I needed that at the time.

It taught me then, when bad things are done to you, the person doing them was a coward and took the easy way out.

He also, in a very supportive move, told me if I could make $1,000 a night writing a free lance direct mail package, I should keep trying to do that.

I really needed that. It started my career, working for myself. If I did not like a client or they treated me badly or they stiffed me (common behavior in the advertising business). I did not take a job with them again, and with new clients I took half the fee upfront. When I asked for upfront money, the possible clients simpered “don’t you trust me?” I would simply answer “It’s not that I don’t trust you. It’s my policy.”

Dads are there to say the right things to you at the right time. Sometimes it is not always the right thing, but they try. Often, if you’re lucky, as I was, they say the right thing. Always — when you really really really need it. Not the wrong thing.

With my father, who was not really my father, since I was an adopted child, it was never all about him, it was all about you. Making me better, even when it hurt him to say things that were the truth.

When I bought my first house in White Plains. He never criticized the house. But when I sold it, he complimented me, “I think it’s great how you came out of it (the crummy first house).” He was a personal trainer.

The good ones  train you to run a race. If you stumble, no one hurts more than they do. When you succeed, no one is prouder. The good ones push you in front of the cameras, they say interview her or him. They did it.

They know what you should do, but they can’t tell you, because you won’t do it if you’re a kid.

But the more subtler of them tell you anyway in hopes it will sink into the rebellious offspring mind. My dad was subtle.

Another fond memory: My father took me camping once at a friend’s cabin in Pennsylvania. Funny thing was there was such a great comic collection we wound up sleeping in sleeping bags on the porch of the cabin. That was funny.

Another time when I was being threatened in college over a position at the radio station, I asked him if I should just abdicate and assign a play-by-play position to the person who was being forced on me. He advised me to “stick to your guns,” so I reported the threat to the Dean.

The position was compromised, but I was never threatened again.  He never shared my love for baseball and sports.

In fact he never played catch with me all that well or that often.

I mean I could have made the big leagues (pipe dream) if he played catch with me more. But that’s a small criticism.  I wish I had more of his financial acumen. But I do not. I married that.

As you grow into your 30s and 40s, little things they say to you you begin to understand.

My father never struck me.

He always disciplined me with quiet words. I have not always been that way as a parent myself, being somewhat volatile. I wish I had his even temperament. He always asked me to take care of my mother. And the only time he really got mad at me was when I had made my mother upset with me.

He was a little like Humphrey Bogart in movie roles in the way he disciplined, I remember he would say admonitions quietly. Such as when I got an F in an English course at college.

He told me, that was the last F I would get at Ohio Wesleyan, because the next one he would stop paying my tuition.

That had an effect. And that was when tuition was only $3,000 a year.

I have taken to, after my children have grown, telling them always “Be careful,” “Don’t do anything stupid because someone suggests it,” “Do not go anywhere alone without telling people where you are going,” “Don’t lose your temper,” “Don’t tailgate,” “Don’t stand close to the edge  of a sever drop.” In hopes that when I am not with them, they will remember it when they need it.

I think of him every day of my life. I become more like him every day. He is always lingering in the background of my thoughts. I do not know what he would think of what I am doing now.  But, he’d say — “If that’s what you want to do. Do it.” He also would say,

“You have to make yourself happy.”

I also think, even today of what advice (laconic as always) he’d give me in a situation.

I wish I could discuss property taxes with him. Banking today and how it has become a predator system.

I especially have to salute him, because I am an adopted child.

That alone makes me appreciate his love and acceptance with a sense of awe to this day. He loved me like his own son. Because in his mind, I was.

He took responsibility. He did what had to be done.

You never outgrow your need for Dad.

The good ones are immortal, alive and with you in your head when you need them.

They are the  ghosts that comfort always. Haunt you in memory. You’re always  glad when they drop in on you.

You feel them warmly when you do good.

You feel their sympathy when you have done wrong. They are your conscience. They are the God of Judgement in your head. Your trusted advisor.

Immortality is leaving a good memory of you with the ones who knew you.

Because what you give them, lives on for generations.

Your children will talk of you because of the good things and behaviors you gave them when you needed them and you never lose those tools Dad gave you.

I miss my Dad and Mom. They probably have discussions over me to this day.

Charles Bailey. He died in 1986.

His legacy and my mother’s to me keeps me going every day.

I also remember my wife’s parents who welcomed me into their family when I married and who raised an extraordinary woman.

I think their should be another holiday.

Parents’ Day.

Don’t you?

 

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