AUGUST 25– DOWN IN THE DEPTHS WHEN NO ONE WANTS YOU AND YOU DESPERATELY NEED A JOB, A COACH’S ADVICE IN THE MOST HARROWING ECONOMY SINCE THE GREAT DEPRESSION

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April 24, 2026   |   Read online

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What to do when fear shows up

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When a client says the market is terrible, do you correct them or coach them?
A large number of career coaches I know would correct them.
They would pull up hiring data and point to LinkedIn job postings. They might remind the client that their sector is actually growing. It feels like good coaching because it looks like reframing.
It isn’t.
Gallup just released data that reframes the reframe, and if you work with clients who are stalling out, second-guessing their search, or convincing themselves that now is the wrong time to make a move, this matters more than any labor report you could quote them.
The data is worth reflecting on, and so are the implications for your coaching.

Your client isn’t making an economic argument. 

Gallup’s recent global poll on the world’s most important problems found something that should stop every career coach in their tracks.
People who reported difficulty living on their household income were significantly more likely to name the economy as their country’s top problem, regardless of whether their national economy was actually growing. 
Read that again: GDP growth had almost no meaningful correlation with how people rated economic conditions.
In other words, the felt experience of financial stress predicted behavior far more accurately than any objective economic indicator.
I can understand why.
Your clients are not reading BLS reports before they decide whether to apply for a job, whether to ask for a raise, whether to stay put or make a pivot. They’re reading their own lives.
They’re looking at their bank account, their rent or their spouse’s job security. That felt reality is what’s driving every decision they bring into your sessions.
Quoting them a statistic does not change their felt reality. It just makes them feel unheard.

Diminishing trust

It’s understandable.
You know the data and you’ve watched clients catastrophize markets that were genuinely hiring. You’ve seen fear masquerade as market analysis so you offer a counter-narrative.
What happens when you correct a client’s economic perception before you’ve fully acknowledged it?
Most of the time, they stop sharing how they really feel.
They just get a little more careful about what they say to you and learn that certain feelings get reframed instead of heard.
This often leads to a tidier presentation of their inner world, and you lose access to the exact material that would let you do your best coaching work.
The Gallup data gives you a useful frame.
If a person’s felt economic reality is a stronger predictor of their behavior than actual economic conditions, then your job is to understand what their felt reality is doing to their search, and coach that directly.

The more skilled move

Instead of: “Actually, your field is hiring. I pulled the data.”
Try: “It sounds like the market feels really uncertain to you right now. Let’s talk about what that uncertainty is doing to how you’re approaching your search.”
That one pivot does three things at once.
First, it validates the experience without confirming the catastrophe. You’re acknowledging that it feels that way, and that the feeling is real and worth exploring.
Second, it shifts the conversation from debating economic conditions (a conversation you cannot win, because their felt reality will always outlast your labor stats) to coaching the person in front of you.
Third, it opens the door to the actual work. 
Once a client feels heard on the fear, they can usually start separating what’s real from what’s amplified. It’s something they do for themselves when they feel safe enough to look at it clearly.

3 prompts to use when a client presents their fear as market fact

Keep these close. They work precisely because they don’t argue with the client’s experience.
  • “When you say the market feels difficult right now, what does that look like for you day to day? What are you noticing?”
  • “If the market felt more stable to you personally, what would you do differently in your search right now?”
  • “What would need to be true for you to feel confident taking one step forward this week?”
None of these prompts requires you to have an opinion on interest rates.

The data doesn’t change your client’s behavior

But their experience of the data might.
That’s what Gallup’s research actually shows, and it has a hard, practical implication for how you run your sessions.
Your clients need someone willing to sit with what the market feels like to them, and then help them take the next step anyway.
That’s the work, and it starts with believing them when they tell you it feels hard.
Want a copy of the Gallup report I mentioned?
Reply with ‘Data’, and I’ll send it to you.
Heather
P.S. If you want to build the kind of coaching skills that work in moments exactly like this one, my Facilitating Career Development (FCD) credentialing program through the National Career Development Association (NCDA) gives you a framework for coaching the whole person, not just the job search. Sign up for my next cohort here.
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APRIL 25– WHITE PLAINS WEEK REPORT WITH THE PLAYLAND REPORT, CITY AND SCHOOL BUDGETS, YOUR TAXES NEXT YEAR WWW.WPCOMMUNITYMEDIA.ORG

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THE NEW CITY BUDGET TAX INCREASE

JUSTIN BRASCH’S FIRST BUDGET  FAIR FISCALLY AWARE SUSTAINABLE

THE PLAYLAND REPORT FROM COUNTY EXECUTIVE KEN JENKINS

CITY BUDGET DIRECTOR ABBOTT SEES POSITIVES,…WARY OF ICEBERGS AHEAD

SALES TAX RECEIPTS COME BACK  SETTING RECORD,  DOUBLING  COVID YEAR. 

IS CITY ECONOMY BACK BIG TIME?

ASSESSMENT ROLL DECLINES VERY 10 YEARS. LET’S FIND OUT.

NEW SCHOOL BUDGET–

SCHOOLS AVERAGE 2.2% INCREASE IN  PROPERTY TAXES EACH YEAR

WHAT YOUR NEW TAX INCREASES WORK OUT TO BE

JOHN BAILEY  AND THE NEWS:

 WHAT THE CITY’S NEW BUDGETS ARE TELLING US

EVERY WEEK FOR 25 YEARS  THIS WEEK ON WHITE PLAINS WEEK

THE NEWS YOU NEED TO KNOW 

EVERY WEEK ON WHITE PLAINS WEEK 

FOR 25 YEARS

 

 

 

 

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APRIL 23–YOUR LOCAL EPIDEMIOLOGIST NEW YORK: MEASLE VACINATIONS DOWN. PREGNANT BLACK WOMEN AT RISK

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APRIL 22–CITY INTRODUCES $230.3 MILLION BUDGET UP 1.1 MILLION. PROPERTY TAX RATE/1000–$257.64 :

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Mayor Justin Brasch, introduced his first City Budget for 2026-27 fiscal year last night.

You can view the complete new city budget at

https://www.cityofwhiteplains.com/DocumentCenter/View/12169/2026-2027-Proposed-Budget

The City of White Plains introduced Mayor Justin Brasch’s  first prepared city budget, increasing the the budget to $230.3 million raising the property tax by 2.9% per/1,000  of assessed value  tax rate to $257.64/1,000 dollars of assessed value (up from 250.27). In his budget message in the printed budget book, Mr. Arnett noted “the 2026-27 proposed real property tax is increasing by 1.65%. The levy as proposed is actually $930,196 less than the maximum increase allowed by the NYS  tax cap formula and allows the city to maintain a rollover amount of $930,196  future years. The Tax Levy of $707.7 million represents 31% of total General Fund  REVENUES.

The budget has gone up 10.8 Million dollars (4.9%), Budget Director James Arnett said  in part because of an 11% increase in Police and Fire pensions and a 11% % pension increase in non-uniformed employees, a cash impact of $2.2 Million dollars. He noted this is a continued concern in future years.

The  property tax impact on  a  White Plains home  assessed at 13,5 thousand dollars assessed value is a $99 increase.

The impact on a home assessed at 16,125  thousand dollars raises that property tax,  ($8,070 this present tax year)  to $8,308 in 2026-27.

The City Sales Tax is calculated to bring in $62 Million in 2026-27, after what appears at this time to be a record year, see chart below.

The Assessment Roll (below) in 2027 has declined 1.26%, Mr. Arnett explained  due to negative office space rental declines, a partial pilot going to a full Payment in Lieu of Taxes,  tax refunds and a new PILOT. The total decline in assessments is $3.5 million

There are no cuts in services.

The complete budget book may be viewed online at www.cityofwhiteplains.gov and going to Budget documents.

 

 

 

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APRIL 21– GUN VIOLENCE: NUMBER 1 CAUSE OF DEATH OF CHILDREN IN THE UNITED STATES

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Well, I tried to sit down to write the usual “health weather report” (ticks, diseases, etc.) that comes out on Tuesdays. But a tornado-like event came roaring in over the weekend, reminding all of us of the massive public health problem Americans continue to face: Firearm violence.

On Sunday, this country experienced the deadliest mass shooting in more than two years. Another tragedy and yet another headline that faded in a day. This time, a man in Louisiana killed eight children, left two women critically wounded, traumatized an entire community, and sent first responders to a scene unlike anything most of them had ever encountered.

These tragedies are not random. What happened over the weekend was a predictable convergence of well-documented, preventable factors. Yet in some states, lawmakers keep failing to act on what we know.

So this week’s “health weather report” is dedicated to gun violence. From me (formally trained in violence epidemiology) and Dr. Megan Ranney (a fellow expert in gun violence), here’s the forecast: what the data shows, where the most risk lies, and most importantly, what it means to you.

Note: This piece covers sensitive topics, including domestic violence and suicide. Please read at your own pace, and know that resources are available at the end if you or someone you love needs support.


Gun violence is still the number one killer of youth in the United States.

On Sunday, a man shot and killed eight children ages 3 to 11. One child was shot on the roof while trying to escape.

Unfortunately, this is not random. For these poor, sweet children, dying from a gun is not a rare occurrence for youth in the United States. Firearms are the number one cause of death for children, recently surpassing motor vehicles and remaining the leader for a few years now.

Deaths per 100,000 children and adolescents ages 1–19, all intents combined. Sources: Goldstick et al., NEJM 2022 (NEJMc2201761); CDC WONDER, 2023. 2022–2023 figures provisional.

On a state level, firearm deaths are most common in the South. Louisiana specifically has the third-highest number of youth deaths from firearms in the country (8.4 per 100,000 kids), a rate that has been increasing fast (75%) in the past 10 years.

This is just behind that of Mississippi (8.7 deaths per 100,000) and Washington, DC (10.1 per 100,00). These deaths include not just mass shootings, but also firearm homicide and suicide.

A history of domestic violence is a strong predictor of mass shootings.

Authorities described the Shreveport tragedy as an event of domestic violence. This isn’t random, as domestic violence is at the heart of so much gun violence. In fact, 70 women are shot and killed by an intimate partner every single month in America from homicides, suicides, and mass shootings:

  • The majority of mass shootings (59%) are related to domestic violence.
  • Firearm use is associated with increased risk of multiple domestic homicides.
  • Domestic violence is a risk factor for suicide by both the perpetrator and the victim.

The women in Shreveport were very lucky to survive, given the odds against them. The likelihood of surviving a mass shooting is much lower when it’s related to domestic violence. That’s because domestic violence incidents are crimes of passion, determined to cause maximum harm to specific people. When someone who has already decided to kill acts with a firearm, the results are almost always catastrophic.

Data Source: Geller, L.B., Booty, M., & Crifasi, C.K. (2021). “The role of domestic violence in fatal mass shootings in the United States, 2014–2019.” Injury Epidemiology, 8(1), 38. Figure created by Your Local Epidemiologist.

Domestic violence thrives in conditions of fear, hopelessness, hatred, and economic dependency—the same conditions that correlate with higher rates of gun ownership, easier access to firearms, and fewer resources for intervention.

The Shreveport suspect should never have had a gun. He did anyway.

The Shreveport suspect had a documented firearms arrest from 2019 and a history of domestic violence. This man should never have had a gun. We do not yet know whether he obtained his firearm illicitly, but it is all too easy to do so.

Under federal law, people subject to domestic violence restraining orders (DVROs) are prohibited from purchasing or possessing firearms. This law has helped significantly, but it also has real gaps. DVROs:

  • Require an established abusive relationship
  • Depend heavily on victims coming forward, and
  • While there is a requirement to surrender guns, it’s rarely enforced.

This is where red flag laws come in:

an added layer of protection. ERPOs (Extreme Risk Protection Orders) allow a family member or law enforcement officer to petition a court to temporarily remove firearms from someone showing warning signs of danger. A judge reviews the evidence, and if there’s enough, the guns are removed for a defined period. This is a civil order with full due process, and the guns are returned when the risk has passed. These can work especially well in domestic violence situations because they give families and law enforcement something concrete to do in the window between “this person is dangerous” and something irreversible happening.

Louisiana doesn’t have a red flag law. In fact, in 2024, its legislature actively shelved it. As shown below, twenty-two states (plus DC) have these laws.

Data Source: John Hopkins School of Public Health. Figure by Your Local Epidemiologist

Red flag laws seem to work. While relatively new, the evidence is growing:

  • In six states with red flag laws, researchers found that 10% of all ERPO cases were filed in direct response to credible threats of mass violence.
  • In Connecticut, researchers found that for every 10 to 11 gun removals under the state’s red flag law, one suicide was prevented.
  • In Indiana, the red flag law resulted in a 7.5% reduction in firearm suicides in the decade after it passed.
  • In California, researchers reviewed mass shooting threats in 159 ERPO cases from 2016 to 2018 and found that no person who had a firearm removed under the law went on to commit a gun homicide or suicide while the order was active.

What this means for you: the systems need you too.

Laws are needed. But even the strongest laws in the world are meaningless if people don’t know that they are at risk. And extensive data shows that even when people recognize risk—as the family members did in Louisiana—they often don’t feel empowered to act. In a country with 400 million firearms in private hands and an active illicit firearms market, knowing when and what to do can be a matter of life or death for our friends and family members who are in crisis.

What happened in Shreveport sits at the intersection of three types of gun violence: domestic homicide, mass shooting, and suicide. Some risk factors are distinct for each type, but many are shared. Risk factors aren’t the perfect formula, but the more risk factors present, the higher the probability of a tragic firearm-related death.

Table of risk factors, by type of firearm violence. The table is non-exhaustive and research is still being done, but any of these can be signs of danger. By Your Local Epidemiologist

If you worry that you or someone you love is at risk,

  • If your state has an ERPO, consider filing a petition to the court
  • Call a confidential hotline for domestic violence or suicide, or use a crisis text line.
  • In some areas, law enforcement and health care professionals may also be helpful resources, although their awareness of and knowledge about how to address risk factors may differ.
  • Document the things you’re observing that worry you, to help you get your loved ones help.

The good news

Just like smoking, a massive public health problem like gun violence will take time to chip away at every angle. But progress is possible. We know this because we’re seeing it:

  1. Gun homicides hit a multi-year low. The overall gun homicide rate fell 16% from 2023 to 2024, which is the largest single-year decline since 1995. This means that 2,281 more people are alive today than would have been at the 2021 peak.
  2. Youth firearm deaths declined. For the first time in years, firearm death rates among children and adolescents declined from 3.5 to 3.0 per 100,000 in 2024. Theories for the decrease point to increased community-based funding for violence intervention programs and community investment post-pandemic.

Question grab bag

One YLE reader asked: “Back in the 1950s and 1960s, there were far fewer restrictions on buying a gun, and yet mass shootings were almost non-existent. How do you explain that?”

Part of the answer is a data artifact. Systematic tracking of mass shootings didn’t exist before the 1980s, so many incidents that would qualify today were simply never counted. There is also just an increased awareness of these events due to changes in the information landscape.

But we have strong data showing the increase is real, too. Weapons are fundamentally different: the civilian AR-15 didn’t exist until 1963, semi-automatic handguns were far less common, and there were roughly 50 million privately owned firearms in the U.S. in 1960 (0.28 guns per capita) compared to an estimated 400 million today (1.19 guns per capita).

Finally, it’s about system failures—ranging from social media glorification of mass shooters, to lack of mental health care, to growing isolation and loneliness.


In case you missed it

Throughout the years, I’ve written about this topic in detail in YLE. A few other pieces:


Bottom line

Gun violence isn’t random. It’s predictable, and because it’s predictable, it’s preventable. But it requires more lawmakers to finally act on what they know. This weekend, the systems meant to protect the most vulnerable failed, and eight children paid the price.

Love, YLE and MR


Megan Ranney, MD MPH is an emergency medicine physician, Dean of Yale School of Public Health, and firearm injury prevention researcher.

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APRIL 21– PLAYLAND OPENS SATURADAY MAY 23

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WESTCHESTER COUNTY BRINGS BACK THE MAGIC OF PLAYLAND FOR THE 2026 SEASON


Playland Park is where generations of families have made magical summer memories—and Westchester County is ensuring that tradition continues as preparations are underway for the 2026 season. The park will open for the season on Saturday and Sunday, May 16 and 17, followed by a grand opening celebration on Saturday, May 23.

Watch A New Day at Playland – Westchester County Brings Back the Magic for the 2026 Season!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qGV2wK6shDQ

A designated National Historic Landmark, Playland Park is home to iconic architecture and historic rides, including landmark roller coasters that have defined the park for decades. As one of Westchester County’s most treasured destinations, the County remains committed to preserving its legacy while investing in its future.

Westchester County Executive Ken Jenkins said:   

“Westchester County invested close to $150 million into capital projects to restore the historic beauty of the park as it is the true backbone of the park. For generations, Playland has been a place where families come together, where childhood memories are made, and where traditions are passed down year after year. This investment is about more than restoring rides and infrastructure, it’s about protecting the history, the character and the spirit that make Playland so special. We are proud to serve as stewards of this iconic destination, and we are committed to ensuring it continues to bring joy, connection and lasting memories to families for generations to come.”

Commissioner of the Westchester County Parks Department Kathy O’Connor said:

“Westchester County has operated Playland for close to 100 years and understands what it takes to successfully operate an amusement park. From taking care of the rides during the season and in the winter, to identifying and ordering parts, staffing and so much more, we are committed to bringing Playland Park to the community for generations to come.”

Preparations for the 2026 season are already in full swing. Skilled carpenters and mechanics are restoring and maintaining rides, while grounds crews are enhancing the park through seasonal plantings and beautification efforts. Playland Park is back stronger than ever, run by those who care most about it: Westchester County.

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APRIL 20– MORE GUNS OFF WESTCHESTER STREETS 244 GUN ARRESTS. 220 CRIME GUNS OFF STREETS IN 2025

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Susan Cacace

DISTRICT ATTORNEY

APRIL 20, 2026

The number of ghost guns recovered jumped 33% year over year

WHITE PLAINS, N.Y. – Westchester County District Attorney Susan Cacace announced today that local police agencies across the county made 244 arrests in 2025 incident to a gun crime, recovering a total of 220 firearms.

Among the 220 firearms recovered in 2025 were 16 ghost guns, representing a 33% increase in the number of ghost gun recoveries compared to the prior year. Ghost guns are unserialized, untraceable firearms made with 3D printers or assembled from partially finished gun parts.

Guns were recovered most frequently from Yonkers (102 guns recovered), followed by Mount Vernon (56), New Rochelle (14) and White Plains (12).

The vast majority (70%) of arrestees were from Westchester, with the remaining portion coming from other New York State counties (19%) and from out of state (11%). Of the out-of-state arrestees, half were from Connecticut.

The plurality of arrestees were between 21 and 30 years of age (36%), followed by 20 and under (24%), 31 to 40 years old (17%) and 41 to 50 years old (16%), with the remaining age categories each constituting 5% or less of the total number of arrestees.

DA Cacace said: “Gun violence is among the most pernicious public safety challenges we face as a county, permanently shattering families and tearing apart communities in an instant. Removing 220 guns from the streets represents substantially fewer opportunities for criminals to use these weapons to bring harm to our loved ones and neighbors.

“Coordination with our local law enforcement agencies is instrumental to these efforts, and I commend the committed work of our front-line partners that has made a significant dent in the incidence of gun crime in recent years.

“My administration will continue pursuing an all-of-the-above strategy in our efforts to combat gun violence, focusing on undercover work, precision policing, aggressive prosecution of firearm offenses and sponsorship of gun buyback events.”

 

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APRIL 20–COMMON COUNCIL REVIEWS 2026-27 BUDGET TUESDAY

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COMMON COUNCIL AGENDA
SPECIAL MEETING APRIL 21, 2026

6:00 PM

PLEDGE TO THE FLAG: Hon. Nick Wolff
PRESENTATION:

1. Overview of 2026-2027 Budget
2. Department Budgets
• Youth Bureau
• Recreation and Parks
• Library
• Parking Department
• Department of Public Works
• Department of Public Safety

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APRIL 17– 600 RAISE $612,000 AT FEEDING WESTCHESTER GALA AT THE WESTCHESTER, AT THE START OF THE GALA SEASON

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CRUNCH THE CARROT

WELCOMED ALL TO
An Evening in Good Taste: One night. 600 guests. 
 
1.2 million meals. Thank you! 
 


With your incredibly generous support, we welcomed 600 guests to a sold-out event and together raised a record $612,000+, which will provide over 1.2 million meals to our neighbors at risk of hunger right here in Westchester. 

40 OF WESTCHESTER COUNTY’S TOP RESTAURANTS DONATED

THEIR FINEST CUISINES INCLUDING A YELLOW FIN TUNA FRESH CAUGHT WEDNESDAY NIGHT

at BROTHERS FISH COMPANY

THE KING  OF TUNAS THE YELLOW FIN –TASTED RICH BUTTERY COOL ELEGANT IN THE MOUTH

“THE ULTIMATE SUSHI” ACCORDING TO THE CITIZENETREPORTER

GUESTS CAME TASTED, MINGLED AND STAYED ENJOYED GREAT FOOD A VERY  COOL LIVE JAZZ COMBO

WITH SOME OF TASTIEST CREATIONS YOU COULD EVER TASTE

 
A heartfelt thank you to The Westchester, Jennifer Haythorn, our incredible restaurants, generous sponsors, and committee members for a night filled with community, compassion, and unforgettable cuisine. Your commitment to our mission is inspiring and reminds us just how powerful we can be when we come together to fight hunger.

We are so grateful to every guest, sponsor, restaurant partner, and volunteer who made this night possible. You remind us why we do this work. And you just made history doing iT

Still want to add to that record? Every gift counts. 

GO TO WWW.FEEDINGWESTCHESTER.ORG
 

Together we are breaking records, 
Together we are Feeding Westchester. 
 

Still want to add to that record? Every gift counts. 


 

Together we are breaking records, 
Together we are Feeding Westchester. 
 

 

 

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